Embracing the problem instead of denying it exists, takes a lot of courage strength, and confidence.
But it puts your mind subconsciously at work to solve that problem.
When you are busy justifying or denying the problem all your energy is spent on fighting the fact that the problem even exists.
But speaking the truth always means no room for hiding behind any excuses.
You must accept that it exists no matter how ugly it is.
Once you do that you have already taken the first step towards solving the problem.
Face 100 of those beasts while everyone around you is busy denying that they exist.
And you will turn into a different person at a different level.