- What do I think Fucked by not knowing or not caring enough to pry
- Preparing i.e. how do I best present this to state what I am thinking fucked by not caring enough to know that people just hear what you say without the context that lives inside your head
- Speaking: am I really saying what I want to say! Fucked my not understanding that what I’m saying versus what I mean can be and mostly are different!
- Are they listening to me? Fucked by not understanding that unlike your head you are not the center of the universe for them! So if you don’t grab and hold their attention they aren’t gonna fucking care!
- Are they understanding what I intend them to understand: fucked by not understanding that I like you they don’t live inside your head and instead they say things inside their head and in their world. So even if you do all the first four steps correctly they might still understand something completely different! The only way around is to keep asking questions, gauging, and making course corrections along the way!
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